<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Anchor — Notes</title><description>Short, honest essays about gambling urges, quitting betting, relapse without shame, and the quiet wins.</description><link>https://www.anchornow.app/</link><language>en-us</language><item><title>Relapse Without Shame</title><link>https://www.anchornow.app/blog/relapse-without-shame/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.anchornow.app/blog/relapse-without-shame/</guid><description>A slip does not have to become a spiral if it is logged honestly and met with a next clean decision.</description><pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>relapse</category><category>the-work</category></item><item><title>The First Bet Is the One to Stop</title><link>https://www.anchornow.app/blog/the-first-bet-is-the-one-to-stop/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.anchornow.app/blog/the-first-bet-is-the-one-to-stop/</guid><description>Why stopping the first small action matters more than trying to win a long argument with the urge.</description><pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>urges</category><category>the-work</category></item><item><title>The Quiet Wins Still Count</title><link>https://www.anchornow.app/blog/the-quiet-wins-still-count/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.anchornow.app/blog/the-quiet-wins-still-count/</guid><description>Recovery progress is often invisible, so Anchor makes avoided bets, clean days, and resisted urges easier to see.</description><pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>progress</category><category>recovery</category><category>the-work</category></item><item><title>What to Do Instead of Betting</title><link>https://www.anchornow.app/blog/what-to-do-instead-of-betting/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.anchornow.app/blog/what-to-do-instead-of-betting/</guid><description>The urge needs a replacement action, not just a rule against betting.</description><pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>habits</category><category>urges</category><category>the-work</category></item><item><title>Why Urges Feel Urgent</title><link>https://www.anchornow.app/blog/why-urges-feel-urgent/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.anchornow.app/blog/why-urges-feel-urgent/</guid><description>Urges feel powerful because they demand speed, but waiting can weaken the loop.</description><pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>urges</category><category>the-work</category></item><item><title>Why We Created Anchor</title><link>https://www.anchornow.app/blog/why-we-created-anchor/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.anchornow.app/blog/why-we-created-anchor/</guid><description>Anchor was created for the short, difficult moment between wanting to bet and placing the bet.</description><pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>anchor</category><category>the-work</category></item></channel></rss>